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Passion, Fashion and Prioritization – I

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What’s latest in fashion recently? Cobalt jewels, pixie cuts, suede wedges or Lady Gaga’s new recipe of dressing up? I am not talking about the fashion that recharges your wardrobe or lubricates your facial details. In fact I mean to mention another fashion stream that has swirled over our society like a cyclone and has made every woman go crazy. It’s a fever that we got from the West. Alas! Let’s end the curiosity here and lay open the main point of this article. Lately the hottest and the trendiest thing out in town is to be a ‘career oriented’ woman. Instead of a race to prove someone’s skill, potential and devotion, it’s more like carrying a fashion statement. 

‘Why do you work?’’, ‘‘Umm It’s to kill time’’, ‘‘we get to party more often’’, ‘‘we stay updated with whatever’s going on’’. ‘‘Umm…. I think I like being social ‘’. Seriously? Time, Party and Socialization? Are these your big goals? Weren’t our aim supposed to be higher?

Let’s now look at the worthy rewards we’ll get by being career-oriented. ‘‘A dream house’’, ‘‘Favourite car’’, ‘‘foreign residency’’, ‘‘ ‘That’ Brand’’. Here I do realize the content of slight materialism in human nature, but is our mission really this materialistic? Another class of society represents women who would choose to stay out of their homes because of a desire to prove themselves equal to men and attain a level same as that of a western woman.

Here i don’t tend to cover the domain of those women who are somehow forced to work or who are compelled by nature to sacrifice their house assembly to earn basic living and survival. In recent days, the only concept girls pick from the term ‘career- oriented’ is to rush into a male dominated field and prove masculine powers and intellect along with blindly competing in a career race without knowing its purpose, for which they knowingly or unknowingly compromise on those responsibilities and traits of their femininity which are put into her by the Creator. In short, we try to be a man in struggle of which we forget that leaving the house and family in darkness in pursuit of enlightening the outer world is the worst act a woman can commit. Is this goal worthy enough to sweep your house making and child raising responsibilities under the carpet? Maybe this is the reason of unending lust and an alarming high divorce rate now. With this desire to prove masculinity; women have sacrificed the family in their pursuit which is exponentially disastrous if it goes unchecked.

Wasn’t seeking knowledge and practicing it meant to explore one’s vast potential, ensure a balanced life, search for truth and serve mankind. Being a woman brings all those valuable pearls of knowledge and experience in house making, establishing worthwhile understanding with the partner and child’s grooming? Whatsoever the goal and reason is, the woman of today is surely confused about the definition of seeking knowledge and in consequence of which home and children pay a heavy price and may win her regret for her later life. Sadly, by the time she realizes, the damage done is collateral. ”What !!!?? Cooking? and a baby? and his old parents? Are you kidding me?? ‘NO’ its really not my thing!” .  All this is nothing but an assemblage of confused thoughts one page after another into an enslaved mind. Napoleon said,

Give me good mothers and I will give you a good nation’.


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